What is the deal with the men in this city?? Is there anyone out there who is actually not looking to play games and who wants a real relationship?? I am tired of being single -- I spent New Year's Eve and Valentine's Day alone and that is enough of that. I miss having someone in my life who I can count on and talk to and rely on and spend time with and all the good things that come along with a good man.

I am 28 - soon to be 29 this month - and not getting any younger. I never imagined myself single at 29 but here I am. That is thanks to spending six years with a guy who was a liar and a jerk. So I do have some trust issues with men but I can't seem to live without you guys!! I am a great girl and I think I am a good catch. I love my family and friends, I am down to earth, funny, a good listener, sensitive, romantic, a little crazy sometimes and most importantly tired of being used.

I am looking for a real man -- someone who is tall - I am 5'9 - has a good job, values and goals in life, someone who is sexual, caring, likes to go out or stay in and cuddle, someone who wants to have a family someday, someone who isnt afraid of commitment and someone who is looking for something serious.

I want to go out after work and have dinner, or meet at Starbucks and grab a cup of coffee and talk, lunch on the weekends, movies, festivals, just hanging out together at home watching a movie and making dinner. I like to go to Potawatomi or play bingo or cards or even board games, just talking about my day to someone who cares and listening to you about your day. I miss snuggling and kissing and touching and all that good stuff too -- but I am not just looking for sex.

If you are truly a nice guy looking for a super nice girl I really am -- I know that most people on this site are looking to play games -- I am not one of them. So if you would like to get to know me better please write me and send a pic and I will send you one of me. Let's email a bit and meet for coffee and get to know each other in person!! You never know -- we could be perfect for each other. Oh by the way -- I am overweight but quite attractive -- but if you don't like big girls dont bother writing me. I am white, 5'9, brown hair and eyes, college educated, tongue pierced (I have a bit of a wild side) but am also reserved and very normal I think - well as normal as anyone is these days!!! hope to hear from you.