I am pretty laid back. My ex's kids spend a lot of time with me. Him and I are way way over, but I love the kids. I want a man who can treat me right and who respects me. Respect and Trust are very important to me. I don't use drugs. i drink on occation. Never that much though. I smoke. I won't quit for anyone. When "I" decide to quit, I will but no one will ever make me do that. I am a really strong willed person. I stand up for what I believe in.