I'm divorced and have two children that live with me part-time, a 7 year-old son and a 5 year-old daughter. I'm a bit of a loaner and somewhat reclusive. I like to go out for movies, shopping, eating, etc, I just don't like social situations like parties that much.

I'm a systems administrator for a small security company, but I do have a growing interest in art and drawing (http://bkart.deviantart.com).

I'm an atheist, not just because it sounds cool, but because I have no doubt that 90% of the people on this planet are wrong about religion/spirituality. I despise inane interactions with others, which is why I hate parties and most males, but I do enjoy meaningful, deep, far-reaching, and nearly unimaginable conversations with those I believe are capable of it.

I want to be more than I am, but have trouble finding the motivation. I think our current state of politics is insanely and obviously self-serving, useless, corrupt and pathetic, but I must admit I do little about it.

I'm looking for an intelligent, independent woman who CAN be alone, but just doesn’t WANT to be alone. She MUST be very open-minded (personally and sociologically), painfully and brutally honest. Atheism is certainly not a requirement, but probably best if you don’t go to church every week and you should definitely NOT believe in ghosts.