I'M 36 AND HAVE 2 DAUGTERS (17 & 4).MY HUSBAND DIED LAST MAY AND I'VE BEEN ALONE EVER SINCE.I'M READY TO LIVE AGAIN!!HAVEN'T BEEN OUT IN A LONG TIME.DON'T DRINK BUT I DO SMOKE AND WOULD BE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH SOMEONE WHO ALSO SMOKES OR SOMEONE WHO'S NOT GOING TO HASSEL ME ABOUT IT.