Hi, I am 31, Living in Bellingham WA. I have 2 kids who are the world to me. My first priority in life is to raise well rounded, well informed and loving children. Next is to take care of me. I keep busy most of the time. I am personable, friendly, laid back. After getting to know people, alot say at first, that I came off as stuck up.. but I'm NOT at all. Others explain me as someone who exzerts a soft confidence. But really its quite simple, I am just shy... but only at first. I am actually out going and I like to be around people most of the time. I like to go out occassionally on a weekend. I am my own person and I haven't ever found anyone who is quite like me. I don't really see my self as the type that "fits in." But somehow I always did, or so it seemed. It took me a long time to be ok with that. I am a very loyal friend among other things. I treat others the way I would want to be treated and expect nothing more or less from others. I cherish my individuality and my freedom to be myself. Family values are really important to me. Having a quality relationship with your family says tons. A couple of things that I have learned along the way are: Your character is something that you cannot change but only build on. Absolutley EVERYTHING happens for a reason.. its not fate. And finally, don't sweat the small stuff (easier said than done) its not worth it!