Hi, I'm a divorced, white, 54y/o male who has a great respect for females. By raising my 2 boys by myself since my youngest was 2 1/2 y/o (he is now 22), I've learned the hard way what women go through when they attempt to hold a household together. I have learned over the years, that instead of looking for what I can get out of life, I should attempt to put into life and strive to do for others and in turn good deeds come full circle and I would get much more out of life with only a small investment of thoughtfulness and concern. I am looking for a nice lady who feels the same way, one who would think more of what she could put into a relationship then what she could get out of it. I have always heard that a relationship is a 50/50 deal. I believe that each person involved should strive to put 100% of themselves into a relationship, so I see it as a 100/100 deal. I feel that what is in ones heart is more important then ones looks, but at the same time I think there must be a balance, for one must be comfortable with the one they are with. I'm not really as crazy as this would make you believe, so if you are interested, let me know.