iris139 "How can I live in a place like Cali & never found the right one? Simple...I havent yet met YOU"
22 year old woman from Palmdale/encinitas/lucia, California      Looking for man for relationship

About iris139

Hello all, Jen here. To introduce myself I'm a Cali girl, just trying to make it in this wonderful world of theater and acting, which is going swimmingly so far. Have lived here all my life and would never live anywhere else(maybe Ireland or Capri though). I go to school a lot so I value what time I have to myself and use it to it's fullest. I absolutely love sailing, go tallships! lol. Right now I'm in school for theatre before I move down southaways to join a specialized troupe. On the off chance that doesn't work out, I'll be headed up north to work on fitness & nutriion/natural wellness(my other passion in life). Hmm...what else should you know about me? I dono...whatever you want to know, just ask! lol. Last, to let people know...I've learned to tell the flame from the spark, so...if you're dishonest in any way, addicted to anything, or looking for a second mommy...youre not looking for me.And if you just want to talk dirty...go have a conversation with the mop. But...if you think the spark could be there...send me a message, Im open to pretty much anything.

So who am I looking for? I value honesty and communication in a relationship over all else. A person who can't communicate effectively closes things out, and there are only so many things to close out before things fall apart. I stand for a lot of dirt from other people in this world, but the one thing I will never lower myself to is to call a liar a friend. One way this is true is keeping an open mind, because a person who can't be honest with themself can't be honest with the rest of the world, and vice versa. One of my favourite sayings is "The only way to be an honest being is to be the person you are when you're alone even in the company of others."
Anyway, on from that. Other than that I'm a pretty simple character. Just looking for someone to hang out with, get a little goofy, maybe strike up a spark. If he's out there I'd like to find mr. right, but so far if wishes were Harleys we all would ride. If he is out there he's white(no, not prejudice, just a preference), younger than my dad, lol, clinically sane(other forms of sanity optional), would never abuse a woman or child, and all that general "normal" type stuff. I'd love to find someone who actually still values this world for the goodness it holds...who believes everyone deserves their fair shake, who wont ask about my boobs the first time we meet, lol, who values a lady who can still blush and doesn't consider her an "underling" for it, who has at least more personality than a shoe and higher IQ than a rock, lol...who actually still likes to do things like get all dolled up and go out dancing(real dancing, not "clubbing"), read the comics page, and make dinner from scratch. Someone who also is open to just taking off on a random adventure, possibly along the coastline talking and jamming with the wind in our hair and ending with a nice Van Halen concert and wreaking havoc on the local WalMart. I will say that I'm not Christian by nature...some aspects, but not entirely...so I would date a Christian definitely, but I'm not out to have anyone shape me to their own mold.
Hmm, what else? Yeah, that's about it. Hope to hear from ya. =)
Profession: Student of Life.

Physical Appearance

Height
5' 3"
Hair color
Blond
Body type
Average
Ethnicity
White / Caucasian

Lifestyle

Marital Status
Never married
Have Children?
No answer
Smokes?
No
Religion
Other
Want Children?
Yes
Drinks?
No

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