I'm a 21 year old living in the south suburbs of Chicago.

Don't let the age fool you, I'm past the point of mind games, wild parties, and binge drinking. I tend to be more of a realist, but still like to think that everything happens for a reason. You have to know pain in order to truly appreciate pleasure. I'm not your typical girl (and I know everyone says that, but in this case, it just might be true), so I'm hoping it's not too much to ask for a not so typical guy.

I just got out of a not so good relationship, and now I'm looking for a guy who is mature enough to handle a great one. Someone who is mature and stable, open and honest, and all the other cliché things us women look for but never seem to find.

Does he exist?

P.S. - What's with all these random guys I've never once talked to, sending me their phone numbers? Sorry, I'm not gonna call you!!