I'm a 43 yr old widow. I'm intelligent, not bad to look at and I love music. My match would be someone who is looking to settle down. Doesn't have to be marriage, but a solid exclusive relationship. I am a caretaker. I always want to help the man I'm with in whatever he does. I don't want to take over your life, just compliment it. He has to be strong enough to be there for me when I need someone to talk to and isn't embarassed to hold my hand in public or introduce me as his girlfriend. I'm not in to supporting someone financially, been there done that and got left with nothing. I'm too old to be playing games. I want someone to go out and have dinner with. I want to be with someone who loves the whole package and doesn't think his family is better than mine or more important. If you've got so much on your plate, that you don't have time to work on a relationship then don't contact me. I have an 8-5 job, off on the weekends. I need someone who can remember when he's made plans with me and sticks to them. You'll never find a more loving and devoted woman as myself if you're the right man. But it has to be reciprocated. If someone contacts me and the first thing out of their mouth is I'm just looking for friends, then you won't get a message back from me. I am here to find my perfect match for a long term relationship.