Here is the important things you need to know before you even click anything: I am straight forward-I hate liars. I don't want to hear all that sappy S*%@- be real. Don't call me baby. I'm not your baby...yet. Don't let tattoos/piercings/ or the fact that I am divorced make you think I don't need romance. I want the butterflies. Surprise me. Get my attention. I'm not a chaser. I've given too much of myself in the past without any return-I'm tired of relationships not being mutual. It's not always about me, and not always about you. I'm NOT here for ONS'. I'm not here for a husband. I want to meet someone with similar interests, sense of humor, values, ideas about life. I would like a companion that just so happens to be crazy about me and good in bed. Is that really out there? Or am I stuck in Hollywood? I can't stand stupidity. When you write to me, please use whole sentences. So don't lie and don't be stupid. Have a good sense of humor. Have some of your own morals, values, and ideas about life. I love spontaneity. I love being silly, wild, and sometimes unpredictable. But I also want someone with gainful employment. I am NOT about to become a sugar mama again. If we meet up for a date, I will expect you to pay the first time. I don't care if it's coffee or a five course meal- I'm not materialistic, but it's a matter of respect and principle. I spend a lot of time with friends at bars, but I don't drink. I like to dance and laugh and sing karaoke. I hate being "hit on", especially by drunk guys, have a little respect, for me and yourself. I hate the smell of booze on someone's breath. Come up and get to know me. There is more than you will ever know behind those eyes. I can promise you that. You will never be bored with me...