I think a woman’s essence is the most important thing. Essence to me is so many things. Her drive, ambition and desires for what she wants in life. Besides that there is the matter of the heart.

I am half Apache Indian and Half German. Let me explain my father is full-blooded German and my mother is full-blooded Apache Indian. I spent many summers away from the bay area where I grew up in the White Mountain Apache range of Arizona/New Mexico learning what my great grandmother had to teach me. So I speak Apache very well. I do not speak German that well but some.
When a woman asked me what do I want out of a relationship my response is this. Memories are what a relationship is. A relationship should first start out small. Like throwing a small pebble into a pond. Then it gets bigger as your emotions and devotion to that person grows. The pebble becomes a rock and the ripple that was once was as now becomes a bigger wave of emotions.