_./'\._ ¸¸.•¤¤•.¸.•¤¤•…. _./'\._ *•. .•* Welcome to my profile *•. .•* /.•*•.\ ¸•¤¤•., .•¤¤•.*.*/.•*•.\ Please read my profile, all of it! you will be glad you read it before you contact me!. I am confident and secure in who and what I am. I am looking for similar qualities *Ready to find my best friend , my true love and partner. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty, romance, integrity, a kind heart, no anger, great manners, no fear and honor. Is all I will give you, so no lies or games. After my divorce, I protected my heart and avoided love. It took plenty of pain and regret to make me see how stupid I have been. I am ready to live my life to the fullest, to open my heart and take chances. I will never lie or minimize anything, so don't ask anything unless you are able to deal with the truth. If you are looking for a sex buddy or friend with benefits, I am just not the man for you. I had a few short term relationships and gain nothing from any of them. I want the real thing or nothing. If you are in the rebound, just divorce, broken hearted, betrayed stage and looking for fun or an outlet,or living with mommy or roomates, please pass me by. I am not here to fix your old wounds, help you forgive your ex, hear you rage about old flames, validate your womanhood, or hear endless sad bitter stories. Please get professional help. You can't change the past, don't dwell on it, learn from it, heal your heart, be forgiving and give yourself another chance. Do not let hate and anger take over your life, that gives those that hurt you control over you. Take your life back and be happy. Not looking to be any body's excuse for anger, rage or violent behavior. If you have an anger management problem, face it, accept it and seek help, find a way to heal your anger, rage, pain, learn to forgive. Stop hurting those that love you, stop pushing them away, you will end up all alone, miserable and bitter* Not looking to get married anytime soon, I am looking to build a strong and loving relationship that will grow with time. I am not against marriage, but I want to make sure if I ever walk down that road again it will be for keeps. What kind of woman am I looking for I want a woman that at the end of the day is willing to cuddle up with me and share the good and bad times. She has honor, integrity, honesty and sincere not into playing games. A woman that wants someone to stand beside her not behind her . to enjoy life together working together to achieve any dreams we may have. A woman that enjoys holding hands, likes to give and receive affection (yes, that means even in public lol), confident personality and is willing to laugh plenty. A woman with a passion for life. "When a woman can touch my mind she gets my interest, she touches my heart, she gets my love, touches my soul, she gets passion beyond her wildest dreams." I want a woman that can do all of the above. *Want to take it slow and get to know you, do not want to spend 6 months talking on line or on the phone, why waste time, be open to meet in person in a reasonable time. BDY I am a believer in chemistry. So take a chance, at worst you will gain a good friend, at best you will find the love of your life. Please make sure to send me recent pictures (no older than 6 months ago). Mine are all from this year. Do not tell me you are into fitness and later confess that you use to be fit and are thinking about trying to get back in shape. Please be honest from the start. I will no longer allow lies in my life. There are no reason for lies. IF YOU HAVE ANY OF THESE TRAITS PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME: ANGER, CONTROL, JEALOUSY, NEGATIVE PERSONALITY, PLAYERS, CAN'T LET GO OF THE HURT YOUR EX DID TO YOU, CAN'T LET YOUR GUARD DOWN, HAS A BRICK WALL AROUND YOU, twisted or no sense of humor, members of the (lol), bigots, idea of fun is playing video games, still live with parents or depends on parent financially (sorry but looking for a real woman), etc