I'm on the right...and that is my Sis aka former sister-in-law....I'm new to the dating seen and just want to find friends and who knows. The least we can come out with is a good friendship. Need to have trust and honesty, I'm tired of all the lying and the games. Do I care what people think of me? No, accept me for who I am, I don't care. I have two kids, my daughter 16 and my son 13 and they live with me full-time, they rarely get to see their father due to his issues. They are the most important part of my life.