I try to be a nice guy all the time...I am looking to share my life with someone special. I am looking for one Man to prove to me they aren't all the same! I am divorced and live with a dog 2 cats and a parrot..so you have to love animals...LOL They are my kids! I have a lot of things I like to do, and a lot of very special things I like, one of them being walks on the beach at night...I love flowers, giving and recieving them...I am not rich, so I can't be a sugar daddy, I mention that because I have been told many times guys were just looking for a sugar daddy, so I figured might as well get that out of the way right away! I am looking for someone to share my life with, I go out usually 2 days a week, and have a lot of friends at the bar...I don't drink a lot ever and rarely drink at home. I don't care much about looks, it's the personality I care about...I do have some health issues, but nothing life threatening, and no I am aids free...HIV Negative... I feel like I am looking for the Easter Bunny or something, I want a kind, loving, caring young man to share my life with...Doesn't seem like a lot to ask but finding him has been a chore I hope to never repeat again once I meet the right guy...I have a 3 date minimum before I'll have sex with you, I am not looking for just a sex partner, I can have as many of those as I want, but am not really interested in that...there is a lot more to life than sex, sex is just the bonus! If I sound interesting, say hi, let's meet...I prefer meeting in a public place first, like City Side or another gay bar, I need to know you before I bring you home...I've been burnt a few times so I am cautious now...I have had way to much abuse and drama in my life so if either of those are your thing....well I'm not interested...I hate abusive relationships...HUGS guys...Jim