I am a part time musician, I like sports, though as we get older our bodies dictate to us which ones we can participate in ourselves. I like to travel and have a townhouse in the south to go to from time to time in the winter to take the edge off. I golf when it is warm enough and I play a mean game of gin rummy. I am a person that understands that there is a time to be serious and a time to just have fun. I like to look beyond the surface to see how a person ticks. I originally went to college to try to do something in the are of psychology and ended up being a financial advisor. Little did I know tha twhat I did learn in my psych classes would come in so handy in dealing with families, money and their relationships. I like a woman that understands that it is more important to want to be with someone than to need to be with someone. I enjoy being with someone that is happy with herself and is able to enjoy life either with a man or without.