update I have a lot to catch up but what i would like to say is that i no longer smoke! Yeah!!!!! At the cost of adding a few pounds. I came to IN on Vacation (visiting my best friend) and as it is working out ,I don't want to leave anytime soon... I have decided that I am here for a reason! I am pursueing making my life and myself a better person! I have had some very wild side experiences and I am interested in being in the company of those who enjoy their own life. I live one day at a -time, pursue serenity. Love to be "pampered" and treated like a lady. Open to having some fun, Im energetic and also very motivated, not an indicisive individual. I 'm here from Northeren California............. My experience here in this site is: (a few) who think dating is pick me up and have an intimate encounter. We all "I beleive" want to find that "ONE" and ultimatley have the intimate encounter. I long for that too! If thats all you want though, PLEASE DONT LOOK HERE! I'm not perfect. My vehical is currently in Cali.