I am a big-hearted single white female and mother of one and I dont have time for petty head games. I am looking for someone who is responsible, romantic, honest, trustworthy, employed, intelligent and easy on the eyes. I have one child who lives at home with me full-time. I am definitely a people person and love to talk openly about any topic. I love animals. Right now, I have a black lab, 3 cats and one miniature hamster. I live on a friend's farm where it is quiet and deer eat in my backyard. I love having the serenity and peace and quiet. I can go to bed and leave the doors unlocked and know that I am safe. Having being married to an alcoholic for so long, I do not want or need anyone who has addiction problems. I prefer someone who only drinks occassionally or doesnt drink at all but definitely not into the "bar scene". If you are looking for a one night stand physical relationship, then keep on looking, because that isnt me. I work full-time and I stay at home pretty much at night wth my daughter. This isnt really because I am that much of a homebody but because I havent had any luck finding anyone in my area who has the characteristics I am looking for. I do not think I am picky, but apparently the selection of single white men in my area are slim.