We can be friends only now. The best to everybody whom I have talked with. My testimonial is a young person friend who asks me for advise. Very nice young lady. These are things here that I have wrote that I feel can make a relationship work. It doesn't mean I am perfect at it but I have enough experience at it to have some good ideas that can work. Whatever it is you are here for please be sincere and it not be an act. I am always sincere to everybody. It is called being respectful. Based on recent experiences it can be all but impossible to know. Some people just have no conscience. I want you to be the breath of good clean fresh air I am going to be to you then we can hope we have the compatibility thing. Now lets go forward a bit. We are now a couple. Whats really important so we stay a couple? Ever wonder what a man will be like if we did become a couple? These are things I feel about it.
1. C-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-i-o-n-how can this be done and it work? We need to do it calmly and in such a way the neither of us feels any sort of retaliation will ensue because of what is said to each other. If one feels their may be retailition then they can become afraid to talk at all and whats bothering them will just fester into something bigger. Well guess what? People break up a lot over this. You knew the answer already.
Have you ever known the greatest couple you felt would never break up but they did? It would be a big surprise if they did. (ok me and her were in that category) It may seem in public that all is good but if the communication isn't going right one is afraid to bring things up then it just may fall by the wayside. Talk about your rejection and loneliness. Don't want anyone to ever have to live thru that.
What I want is to find that special lady who I and she can feel comfortable with how we will react to any sort of problem. Why will they act so well? Because these two have a pact to love and cherish no matter what and be able to tell each other anything at all. They share everything and things no one else knows. It can be something simple that is funny to talk about or something serious. They are each other's confidant.
2. Fun-havng lots of fun together.
3. Get thru the church doors every week together because it is so greatly needed and we all need spiritual help throughout our entire lives no matter how good we think we are and it needs to be done with other like minded people.
4. Not take life so seriously all the time. Lighten up. Daggone! If I drop a plate in the kitchen and it breaks so what? Well if its your mamma's best china ok go ahead and yell at me but make it brief! We get over these little things quickly because we love it when all is good so much we don't want to linger on with little things. Don't sweat the small stuff.
5. Slow to anger-I don't like any yelling and I feel its disrespectful for a man to do that to his mate.
I am a very healthy man and still during the summer their is no kind of heat that can get me down when I run. Not even the 104 we had last summer. Well that did a little. For you ladies who think men over 50 can't take 10 quick steps without being winded think again. The only thing different about me (well almost) is I see but don't really feel a difference yet as I age until I look in the mirror everyday.
I'm sure theirs more as it comes into my head I'll add it in. Send messages of what you think. I have tried to be honest. Love romance and old english romance movies as well as anything Clint Eastwood. The beach in the summer and you should see me riding the boogie board if the waves are right. Ok ask me stuff. I know I don't have all the answers but I do know some things that make a nice day happen for you.