well my name is joseph m. elmer i am 22yrs old and i am in the united states army i have no kids and i am currently single as i have been since my last serious relationship it lasted three years we had a miscarriage and then she left me for my best friend of 11yrs so anyway i am a true country boy i was raised in a small town in GA and i like mud riding country and rock music i am very outspoken when it comes to being opinionated thats me i btreat everyone with respect because i want to be treated with the same my biggest pet peeve is when a man disrespects a woman in front of me whether it be verbally,mentally, or physically especially physically i do not tolerate it at all i like sitting at home on rainy days with that special lady maybe cook a nice dinner for the two of us rent a movie or just sit thier by candlekight or fireplace and just hold each other and talk i like to hang out and play pool at the local pool halls although i have not done it in a while now what i am looking for is a woman who knows what she wants in life is honest that is my other pet peeve i hate when people tell lies in general i try to be honest with everyone unless it's like me being late for something yeah then i lie and say i was having car trouble or something thats fine but when i say lies i mean actual lies but again looks is not a big thing with me teah they help but it's who you are that defines you so please BE yourself well the age thing preferably between 21-26 and i like short woman about 4'11 to 5'5 can not be taller than me i judt feel wierd well thats pretty much it