I am a laid back guy. I like the company of women. I am not into bars to much. I work weekends, but have 3 days off a week. Looking for someone cool and cute to hang out with. I like to go to movies, plays and concerts. I used to be a deadhead and travel the country, so I have intersting stories to tell. I am a little more grown up now.I grew up all over the country. Pacific coast, east coast. South. Lots of influences. I am a great cook, love to cook for others, or eat out.I know most of the good chefs in town, can get great reservations. I am a half as@ musician. I can barely play 3 instruments. I write short stories and poetry, I 've done that since I was 12. Looking for someone who will not be jealous or controlling of me time. Looking for a long term relationship in the future, take it easy now. Will no longer sleep with a woman on the first date, or the first month, That ties up to much emotion. If there is sexual attraction it will keep, and will make it so much better later. Ive done alot in my life looking for someone who is also done with most of that. I still like to have fun and go wild on occasion but not to the extreme that I used to. I have learned that sometimes one real good night can lead to alot of bad days.