I will start by saying that I am not some loser looking to cheat on his wife. I had it done to me and I don't believe in it. I am looking for someone that is in the same situation to talk to as a good friend. If it leads to a closer relationship, well after two years of struggling to get my marriage on the right track, I guess I would be open to that. I just want to be happy and smile again. Please don't respond if you can't treat someone as an equal or if you have difficulty telling the truth. No friendship can endure lies so a relationship certainly can't either.