I was raised in Syracuse ny until i was 18 then moved way up in the north counrty... I have 3teenagers one will be leaving home in jan of next yr Im a home maker and also buyin my place.. I was married to a wonderful man of my dreams and he passed away 3yrs ago and i am tryin to find the happness i had with him.. he was one of a kind and i know i cant replace him with anyone else.. he took my kids in as they were his own and thats one thing i would love to have again with someone else...

lets see there is alot more i can say i guess.. im a very easy person , i enjoy talkin to people helpin people out if i can, i enjoy doing scrap booking, love music from the 70's and todays music, im not really into the heavy stuff.. i enjoy getting on line . I do like to go out to the clubs but thats been so long and i do miss it ... if i had missed anything please feel free to just ask me..

What am i looking for... this isnt as hard as talkin about myself...I would love to find a nice tall man 6ft and over but if that dont happen and ur not tall dont panic i never had a tall man yet so your cool lol.. I want the man to be the type that is easy going down to earth enjoys the family life. that dont like to fight.. you might think it cant be but TRUST ME IT CAN you just need to work at it ...
I dont mind a man that likes to have a few drinks but if you cant handle your drinking then i guess you really dont need to drink, what i mean by this is that when you drink its to have fun not turn it into fighting seen this so many times in the bars and i just dont understand it, i dont want that kind of life....

I sure dont want anyone thats on the jelous side what so ever been there and i hate it ..( long story)and my main thing is that whom ever wants to get with me must like kids as well, if you make kids feel unwanted trust me they wont like you .. (my kids have been there) I want everyone to get along and enjoy each other then everyone is happy and there is no stress going on.. my kids mean the world to me and i need to make sure my kids are just as happy as i am....

and i also ask that your not on DRUGS AS WELL... and i really need to add this in if by any chance i meet someone on here that wants to be with me and my kids the big question would be are you willing to move.. i had done this and gave up my first home for nothing but lies and i will not put myself threw this again. made a big mistake and i will never repeat it..

Im not looking for anymore HEAD GAMES AS WELL.. i think i covered just about everything i can think of if i come up with anymore i will add it. but other then this im really looking for someone that can just be yourself you dont need to buy me this and that to please me i dont need that , all i want is someone that i can be happy with and hey its free thats a plus lol..thanks for your time