i am a pretty cool chick. i have three kids and the oldest is in college and lives on his own. i have to say that these sites are not my ideal place to find people to meet but hey, it is hard to network when you get to this stage in life. love to laugh, have fun, and i think more than anything start having some time to myself without always having the kids being part of it. i need some lady time with a man. so i guess some mom time with a dad who also needs a break.