What must a guy do to attract the right woman....one who is stable, sweet, and sincere? A woman who is willing to start slow, as a friend, but is open and available for long-term if it goes that way? A woman who has something to offer that is comparable to what I offer to a relationship? And I'm not talking about only material offerings, but many characteristics conducive to a healthy relationship. If you're observant, thoughtful, and ask the right questions, it will be easy to figure out what I have to offer. So I'd like to hear what you can offer to someone. Dating at our age is really a game, unfortunately; but I'm tired of playing with participants who still play it the same way they did in high school. It's time for us to grow up, put our past behind us (even the pain), set realistic goals and keep them in our sights, and be honest and sincere in our dealings with those we meet in our search.