My life centers around my daughter, son-in-law and 4-year-old grandson. When I'm not working, I'm usually with them. We live on 15 acres in the country. We have a stocked pond, riding trails for the 4-wheelers, a pool and no close neighbors. I need a real man who can handle a real relationship with a real woman. I am strictly hands on. If you're into cyber or phone sex, you are definitely, absolutely and most positively NOT the guy for me. I'm into reality. Fantasy is saved for my books.