You are probably a wonderful girl with a lot to offer, smart, funny, and positive; tired of meeting slobs who can't get past your body parts, and couldn't keep up with your mind, anyway... I am discouraged by girls I meet from onstage, who want a "trophy"' and think my JOB is who I AM... (Men can feel like a piece of meat, too--it takes a little longer because our culture raises us to be "sluts without guilt"--I got past that at 17, on my first tour... If those other guys were performers, and could have all the casual encounters they (think they) want, perhaps they'd learn to read; finish Jr. high, take a shower, stop chewing tobacco--who knows?)
I'd like a FRIEND who decides that inside, I'm someone she has faith in; that she can trust; depend on, and wants to be intimate (without sex) first. The mark of a REAL man, (and it took a painful couple of lessons when I was much younger to figure it out.) is to wait for the beautiful soul to lose it's distrust, it's fear, and come to want to be closer to me...a horse... a bird...a butterfly...a woman guarding the treasure of herself, inside. The reward is SO much more beautiful--all the way there... I know that it is better to Give than to Recieve...I know that real Beauty, real Grace, come from WITHIN every woman; every person. Perhaps you agree?