I am a genuine, all original (no enhancement surgeries) southern belle with high moral standards and values, who has taken very good care her health and her appearance. I look, sound, and act much younger than my actual age. (All pictures were taken on 090408) I don't smoke, drink, curse, or do drugs....legal or otherwise. I sincerely appreciate being treated like a lady. I love to hold hands, cuddle, and show the man in my life how much I appreciate him.

I am a one-on-one person and enjoy doing things together such as traveling, taking day trips, walking, dancing, dining out, movies, or just being together in (and taking care of) a nice home. I am not a sports person, and I don't enjoy loud places and parties. I am financially secure and the man in my life must be also.

I have been blessed with a lot of common sense and have used it to do many things in my life that will intimidate most men. I want a man who can learn from and appreciate my abilities and my life's experiences, and not feel a need to put me down in an attempt to overcome his lack of confidence in himself. I want a best friend and lover who I can lean on and learn from, and vise versa.

I'm looking for a clean cut, clean-shaven, nice dresser (no tee shirts please), classy man who has similar personality qualities and enjoys the same types of activities. I seem to be the most compatible with other Virgos, so if you are one, we probably already have a lot in common.

I am a Christian woman and God is the foundation of my life. I do not attend any church on a regular basis, because I feel that churches restrict what the true meaning of being a Christian represents. For me, God is everywhere and is in every situation in my life. Jesus is my best friend and the Holy Spirit is always teaching me and encouraging me to grow in every area of my life. Some spiritual programs I enjoy watching are Dr. Charles Stanley, Joyce Meyers, and Wayne Dyer. When I occasionally attend church, I go to Calvary Chapel Church, a non-denominational church.

Healthy relationships have conflicts; resolving conflicts strengthen relationships and encourages each person to mature and change. Change is a good thing. Anyone can be a good person during the good times; it’s the difficult times that define who we really are. It’s working through the difficult times that builds character and gives each of us the ability to empathize and have compassion for others going through similar situations. Anyone who runs from or resists change and emotional growth will never find happiness or a healthy relationship, because happiness without problems only exits in a fantasy world.