Yes, every bit stone butch in the streets, and more than every bit bottom femme in the sheets (or the couch, or the washing machine, or the beach.......... or you get the picture.) I have been with a woman for a while but told her it was over long ago. I am not going to be the one to leave, but I have been honest about my desire to find someone to take care of my needs. I am not the easiest to get along with, but our relationship took it's turns a long time ago and just can't find it's way back. So, now I'm stuck with a woman who is good to me in most every way, but leaves me without intimate, or even plain physical, attention for months on end. I have put up with that for a couple years now and always nervous about new situations... I don't want a new relationship, I've learned enough from my past that they don't work for me, so I just stick around with what keeps me comfortable in the meantime. Don't call me bad, the only bad thing I have done is not leave, I have been honest about my intentions, likes, dislikes, and reasons to her.