I am a single dad raising my son. I work 40+ hours a week. I notice that most woman on these sites say basically the same things. ( "looking for a guy that is sincere, kind, compassionate, and honest")But when I meet them they all turn out to be either wanting "Macho man", "players who know how to push buttons" or it's some kind of scammer trying to get me to sign up for somthing, or get my money. I am what they SAY they are looking for. Not what they REALLY want. I am not Ultra macho, and I am not good at the GAME. Nor do I want to be these things. I am a TRUE human being with both strong masculine and feminine qualities. when I am sexualy attracted to a woman it makes me very nervious and often I appear like i'm freezin cold. sorry I have no control of my pheramonal reactions. I am PASSIVE AGRESIVE, so if your into the whole beat down, or rape fantasy don't waste yours or my time. I was raised by very healthy parents and am not stunted like most modern people with a low range of emotions. Infact I am very emotional. I live by my passion. I am looking for a woman that doesn't have extreme diferences on what she says she wants and how she actually behaves when that situation happens. I realize that woman respond to how thay feel not what they think, but this really does bother me about most woman. So I am seeking someone who is very emotionally intelligent, and whos morals(what they think is right) and values(how they act when the situation arises) are the same. Because otherwise you will do me more damage than good. Also no more woman from west africa, and no porn, age verification ect.. scams please. you can email or wink, flirt with me if you are this exceptional type. Thanks