I am a 53 year young I am new to socal. I feel that I am loving, caring, giving, sensuous and sexy. I am educated, well-spoken and have been told I have a sexy voice. I love to travel(esp road trips), museums, theater, flea markets, karaoke, the ocean and mountains, the moonlight, read, play cards and much more. I would love if you had some same interests and was college educated too.

I am a touchy, feely, hand holding type gal who even likes public displays affection. I love to kiss!! I have two wonderful cats, so please like them and don't be allergic. I am allergic to smoke so please be a non smoker and non drug user....I am more attracted to men taller than my 5'10' frame, but am open to shorter men. I am hoping to find a man with a spiritual side who is not afraid to express it. I am open to dating men 38-60.
Now comes the hard part...I have always from childhood been a large person...was on diet pills in first grade...was about 30 pounds less than my present weight in high school. I have been through hell to lose weight...even the surgery option in the early 80's and the doctors goofed and it was taken down the best they could. I am quite sure barring a miracle, I will always be fat...but I have a new body image of recent and am confident and feel sexy and young!!

Another thing is that, I am disabled and for the last 20 years or so I have needed to use a scooter or electric wheel chair to participate in activities that require alot of walking only...not in my home, or things like restaurants.

If you are a person who is mature and open-minded, that can look beyond the outer shell of the person and look into the heart and soul...you will be pleasantly surprised at the what I have to offer!

I pray LOVE is not an illusion...my dream is that a special monogamous man will come into my life...accept the good and not so good about me....will prefer me over himself, as I do the same....consider him above myself. He will long to know the most intimate things about me...my hopes, dreams and fears....as I learn his....That I will be a "refuge" that he comes home too, a safe and quiet place that he can be himself and like what I am for him....homey, warm, living in harmony in an unharmonious world......