I'm 38, married(first time to my best friend & love of my life), no kids yet(stepmom to two adults--24 & 32), do have an eight year old, orange/buff, male tabby(named Valentino--Tino for short), a one year old, gray, female tabby(named Phoenix--Nixie for short)& a light grey/white brown male tabby kitten who adopted us several months ago(named Tyler or Ty for short), they are all cuddle kitties, trying to get my writing career going(do merchandising/mystery shops & starting a home business in the meantime)& a cancer survivor living about 90 miles north of San Francisco.


Am an avid reader(enjoy mystery/suspense & true crime the most), big movie buff(especially like the classics, 30's & 40's), watching sports(baseball, definitely), dining out(Chinese is a favorite), thrift & discount shops(love a bargain), the Internet(MSN groups--I manage five & assist at three, graphics sites & fansites are what I visit often), etc


Haven't been able to work or do too much in the past seven years(because of the above health reasons)until the last year. So, all the friends I've made have been online. Am ready now to start meeting people in person. Have just come out as bi. Mainly to people online. Only to my husband in real life. Not looking for a threesome. A relationship which is mostly or only online is fine.