Coworkers and most people who know me don't know about my romantic, softer side. I like being with a woman, dong things, going places or just walking or whatever stikes our mood. I'm known for being brainy or very smart. Caring, soft spoken, loking and smiling. But most don't know how I feel about being alone . I like it, true. It has it's strengths and payoffs. But I like being with someone - the right one. I don't chase ladies, or even date to banish the solitude, I find comfort in it. But I also wish for an equal to share times with. I look for a sparkle in the eye, quick wit and playful arrogance. I like to be challenged, I like to be treated like a man, not some guy your killing time with. I open doors, let thelady step through a doorway first and if you know how to look for it you can see an old fashioned personality with a progressive mind. I'm pretty open minded. But I know that when I'm with a lady it's about her, and letting her feel it, rather than telling her how she should feel when she's with me. Actions speak louder than words.